Suze Orman argues a 94-year-old's FICO score is worthless since credit scores only benefit future borrowers, making cash flow protection the priority.
Credit card debt is unsecured and dies with the borrower, meaning children who are only heirs owe nothing to the card issuer.
Before stopping payments, the family must confirm the actual debt total, home equity, and consult a bankruptcy attorney about state homestead exemptions.
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On a recent Women & Money podcast segment, Suze Orman took a call from a listener named Mary about her 94-year-old mother, who is carrying roughly $10,000 in credit card debt on a fixed income of Social Security and a teacher's pension. Mary said the account was current but the minimum payments had become a burden. Suze's blunt reply: "Who cares about a FICO score when you are 94 years of age?"
If Mary and her four siblings follow the wrong instinct (protecting Mom's credit score or draining their own retirement to pay a card issuer), they can burn years of savings on a debt the law does not require anyone but their mother to pay.
Orman's advice is sound. Late in life, on a fixed income, with no assets legally tied to the credit card balance, the family's job is to protect the mother's housing and care, not her credit report.
She told Mary that a $10,000 balance would carry roughly a $200 to $300 monthly minimum payment, and if that is truly crushing the household budget, "something is radically wrong and the 5 kids should each come up with $2,000 and pay off that debt." Split five ways, a genuine $10,000 balance is a one-time write-a-check problem, not a monthly bleed.
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The reason a minimum payment feels heavy is the interest rate behind it. The average credit card APR is 20.94% as of May 2026, sitting in what the Federal Reserve's own data classifies as record territory above 20%. At that rate, paying only the minimum on a five-figure balance means most of the check services interest, and principal barely moves. A 94-year-old on Social Security cannot outrun that math.
Credit card debt is unsecured. No specific asset backs it. A mortgage is secured by the house; an auto loan is secured by the car. If you stop paying a credit card, the issuer can call you, report the delinquency, sell the debt to a collector, and eventually sue for a judgment. What they cannot do is seize a home that was never pledged as collateral.
That is why Suze told Mary: "That debt is not going to pass down to the 5 kids. You could very easily, believe it or not, just stop paying it." Credit card debt dies with the borrower unless a co-signer or joint account holder exists. The children are not on the hook simply because they are heirs.
A reverse mortgage adds a wrinkle. It lets a homeowner 62 or older draw against home equity while living in the property; the loan comes due when the borrower dies, sells, or moves out permanently. It is secured by the house. The credit card is not. A credit card issuer cannot force a sale of a home that already has a reverse mortgage lien on it to satisfy an unsecured balance, which is why Suze added, "If that was my mother, I would consider claiming bankruptcy. Only if they can't take the house away from her." Bankruptcy exemptions vary by state, and that homestead question is exactly what a bankruptcy attorney gets paid to answer before anything is filed.
A FICO score is a tool for borrowing. It determines the rate on a mortgage, a car loan, or a new card. A 94-year-old with a reverse mortgage already in place and no plan to finance another purchase gets no meaningful benefit from a 780 score. Wrecking it to preserve $200 a month of cash flow is a rational trade. Orman's line lands because it is literally true: the score exists to price future credit, and future credit is not the point at this age.
Before anyone stops paying or files anything, Suze pushed Mary on two numbers the family has not run. What is the current equity in the home if the reverse mortgage were paid off? And how much does memory care actually cost in their area?
Those two figures decide the strategy. If equity is meaningful and memory care in their region runs several thousand dollars a month, the home may need to be sold to fund care, and protecting it from unsecured creditors matters less than people assume. If equity is thin and the mother can stay in place with family help, the calculus flips toward simply letting the card go unpaid and accepting the credit hit.
Suze also noted the harder truth Mary sidestepped: "She has been living far beyond her means for a long time. Long time." The U.S. personal savings rate has slid to 3.9% in the first quarter of 2026, down from 5.2% a year earlier, and consumer sentiment has fallen to 44.8 in May 2026, near recessionary readings. Households across the income spectrum are running thinner cushions.
Get the real debt number in writing. Pull statements for every card. Suze suspected the true balance could be closer to $100,000 than $10,000.
Value the house and confirm the reverse mortgage payoff. Order a current appraisal and request a payoff quote from the reverse mortgage servicer.
Price memory care locally. Call two or three facilities and ask for monthly all-in costs.
Talk to a bankruptcy attorney licensed in her state. Ask specifically about the homestead exemption and whether a reverse-mortgaged home is protected in a Chapter 7 filing.
Get legal and medical paperwork in order. Durable power of attorney, healthcare proxy, and a HIPAA release, signed while she still has capacity.
Stop subsidizing the debt from the kids' retirement accounts. If the balance is unsecured and she has no meaningful assets a creditor can reach, paying it down from the children's savings converts a non-transferable liability into a permanent loss for the next generation.
Credit card debt still matters. But late in life, on a fixed income, with unsecured debt and a home protected by a reverse mortgage, the priority shifts from credit score maintenance to care planning and asset protection. Get the numbers, get the paperwork, and stop paying the card only after a lawyer has looked at the whole picture.
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